Janglyjewels has a bazillion Jared icons of every possible variety - check her LJ. (They're all shareable.) I'm sure you can find something you like over there.

As for the movie - ITA with everything you said. I especially enjoyed the bonus features, where the rest of the cast is laughing and enjoying their memories of the shoot, while Paris is sitting there befuddled, like she can't quite figure out what a TV set is. (Like, "OMG, that's me in that little box...") Not the sharpest knife in the drawer, for sure.